You dont have to hold on to the pain, to hold on to the memory. (Janet Jackson)
We can not walk properly if we are still looking back. We are also not likely to step in the right direction if our views are not the focus. As the weather is more dominated by feelings, we often do this. We often look back, our past.
Fun things that can make our own smiling when we remember it. But for the poignant and painful, will bring us back deep in the valley of tears.
Do we ever ponder what’s the use of all of ‘remembering’ it? Nothing, right?! The past will not reoccur.
We must learn to put the past in the right place, namely in the past. We are not able to change what has happened in the past. So we better learn to let go of all that. Relax the past.